In this episode, Bree Noble reconnects with her longtime friend and fellow musician, Tara Brueske, for an honest and lively discussion about a universal topic in the music industry: rejection. The two reflect on their decade-long relationship—having first met through a podcast pitch—and how much both their careers and personal lives have evolved since 2015.
Bree and Tara share personal stories of rejection, from tough audience encounters to being dismissed by industry professionals. Bree talks about a stinging moment early in her career when a radio station rejected her album, citing her singing ability—something she later realized was unfounded and perhaps not even genuine feedback. Tara recounts similar experiences, including odd requests and frosty audience responses at live gigs, reminding listeners that even experienced performers aren’t immune to negative moments.
The conversation dives deeper into the emotional impact of rejection, especially for women in music. They discuss how easy it is to internalize dismissals and let them confirm insecurities. Both stress the importance of not letting a single negative comment erase a sea of positive feedback. They offer practical advice: save and revisit positive comments and accolades, bank successful moments for tough days, and remember that everyone’s musical tastes are different. Tara and Bree also highlight the value of persistence, community, and acknowledging growth through adversity.
The episode isn’t just about the hardships; it’s peppered with encouragement. Tara and Bree underscore that rejection is part and parcel of the creative journey. Whether you’re booking gigs, releasing music, or pitching to press, you’ll face many “no’s” before you find your “yes.” They advocate for surrounding oneself with a supportive community, celebrating uniqueness, and embracing the learning that comes from every experience.
Bree closes with a plug for Tara’s book, “20 Must-Have Booking Tips Every Musician Needs,” and invite listeners to submit topics for future episodes. Their candid, unscripted conversation is a comforting reminder that rejection happens to everyone—and that perseverance, self-awareness, and a strong support system are key to thriving in the music industry (and beyond).
